I know pretty much as possible answers to the written by me, will look. I write it anyway.
This world is simply too much of surface. There is no real effort more. The effort a person makes to another person.
I notice especially between husband and wife. There are so many gaps. Since empty space is so much in between. It's kind of scary.
I notice especially between husband and wife. There are so many gaps. Since empty space is so much in between. It's kind of scary. I have some ideas as a man. Just as every person has. There are ideas to my partner or indeed partnership. But would like some things have just also things I do not want. The same goes for women, too, which I get to know
One of the things that I expect is honesty. What an honesty? This is easy. The personal honesty. I expect that my future wife just stands by its own truth. After three long-term relationships, including a failed marriage, I just want to no more euphemisms. No hide and no lies. We are all human and humans make mistakes. Who does not know is perhaps no man or believes Jesus to be. It is normal that people stupid or even do disgusting things. We always find a reason to do exactly what is not good for us.
That's OK. That is Human. Just humanly it is to feel shame. Not wanting to tell everyone about it. But right here is what annoys me so much at the moment. When I meet a man, a woman, then I will of course not be bombed from the beginning with all truths. I'm also not. However, it should, if you but know that you want a stable relationship, be clear that it does not work without trust. But which proves confidence. For me, it shows exactly that. It shows in the fact that the woman, whom I have chosen, is honest to me. Got no secret. Especially not about her past.
Why do I say that? Because, in my experience, now knows exactly how many quarrels arise be injured from the. Especially when a sore point is taken. Very often just out of ignorance. Times said. As may be required by a person to behave more correctly, if this man is given no way to know how. I'm only human and as a man. I just like a woman feelings. I am also vulnerable and do the same error. However, this seemingly not to be something that is granted to me. I see, not only with me, more and more perverse as the large demand of men is. Straight and in particular in a relationship. How can that be? Women want but also just be accepted as they are. But why do we men are not accepted just as we are?
At the moment I wonder if I expect too much from a woman. So far I did not think about it but now I have to. For some reason, which I will probably never understand, I do not get honesty. No personal honesty and thus no confidence.
You know I'm pretty simple in my views. I think that a relationship can work only with three things. Love, truth and loyalty. From both sides the same. Apparently, but seems to be an untenable demand today. Why do I say that? Because I have my eyes open. Every time I meet a woman, I recognize immediately as I'm being lied to. I immediately recognize this patch and Masked. There is completely no matter how pretty this woman is. At the moment I'm just no longer interested in her. Guys, I am no friend of the setting of many of my male colleagues but I understand it better and better.
With increasing anger and frustration I slide off more and more. More and more I'm going to see a woman only been necessary as an object. I am fighting very against it because it's not my type. But again and again I meet women who are so terribly dishonest. However, the worst of all my experience, women do not think even I can see the lies!
I have a strong desire for family. My children, the house and the whole strenuous crap pertains to it but I believe less and less that happen. I may be in this world I always less even. Am always forced to adjust me and if I do not give in I get mockery and malice. Particularly of women. I do not understand why? I do not get drunk. I'm not a player. I believe in God. I'm a big well-groomed man. Well, I'm a beard but please, men have beards. I am Honest. Nevertheless, I get constantly to this wall of lies and acting.
This world has simply become terribly dishonest. A sober example of a friend gave me. He is also divorced. He has since built their own businesses. He showed me how the number of women who are interested in me, has risen to the height of its assets. Meanwhile, he has a List (Yes, he keeps a list) with over 40 women. This is really bitter. You have to say, his opinion of women is even worse than mine. Although I basically have no bad opinion. I'm just disappointed.
I just wonder if the meaning of life consists not love and happiness with another person to share, what is the point then? I mean, how are they your experiences? What is it women say? How come we humans are so? Cannot we just different?
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Robert Herman
